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How to understand that you like a girl?

How to understand that you like a girl?

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  1. How do girls hint about sympathy?
  2. Learning body language
  3. Social networking
  4. Professional Tips

When a girl likes a lot, I really want to see signs of a response feeling Female psychology is difficult to understand and unpredictable, but you can explore the main signals of the ladies' sympathy.

How do girls hint about sympathy?

The girl is a mysterious creature, but it is not so difficult for her to know that you like her. The main thing is not to invent something that is not there, but to closely monitor the behavior of the fair sex and mark for yourself certain signs of sympathy.

Each person will have their own, but some common beginning of the nascent feelings is noted in all women. Practice shows that the girls begin to show signs of attention in the second or third week from the beginning of their acquaintance. And some, especially impatient, ladies can start to do it even earlier. Girls want to attract the guy they like using special behavior, but it can be difficult to determine this to the object of their lust. Inexperienced or not very attentive guys may not notice for years at all that they liked the girl.

Check the feelings of shy strangers or work colleagues will help basic knowledge of psychology. Even the most secretive woman cannot completely hide her sympathy.

Modest ladies hint that they like a guy like this:

  • they often observe the object of passion, and if their eyes are seen, they are immediately taken away;
  • blush when a man dear to the heart appears;
  • looking for information about the guy you like among friends and acquaintances;
  • try to look beautiful every day;
  • start to get lost and be timid in the company of a pleasant man.

More assertive ladies differ in their behavior when an object of sympathy appears:

  • can take the initiative: start a self-talk, walk past, playfully shaking their hips;
  • “Shoot” eyes;
  • send notes;
  • find a phone number and contacts in social networks and write first.

In fact, unfamiliar women are very inventive. It is necessary to see signs of their attention in time. Then come and meet it will be much easier.

If we talk about a conversation, then it can also trace the romantic vibes, which, at first glance, may be completely invisible. In conversation, the girls hint at sympathy as follows:

  • say compliments (even if not everyone understands);
  • always laugh at the jokes of a handsome man;
  • listen to the conversation and try not to interrupt;
  • they prefer to stay a little bit at a common conversation, watch from the side and smile.

Sometimes ladies can act diametrically opposed when they like a guy. They can completely ignore him or even behave aggressively. So they relieve the accumulated tension from undivided feelings. Just as boys pull girls for pigtails and are teased when they like them, girls already in a conscious age can choose such tactics of combat.

Therefore, to put an end to relationships, when a girl, as if, hates a man, is not necessary. There is a high probability that she is in love.

To make it clear to a man that he likes a woman, she can specifically behave more loudly in the company of friends. Thus, she sets herself apart from the rest and declares herself "with a capital letter." If a lady begins to whisper with her friends when a certain male appears, then this also speaks for certain about the beginning feeling.From the overabundance of emotions girlfriends begin to whisper in order to share momentary impressions.

When that same lady appears, she will immediately put off her phone or work and devote at least a few minutes to her potential suitor. She just can not behave differently because of surging excitement.

Also an obvious hint of sympathy for a particular guy is flirting and flirting exclusively with him. The lady will not show interest in other representatives of the stronger sex.

How else can a woman hint about her sympathy? There are a lot of ways, but the main ones are:

  • periodic requests for help, which undoubtedly help to start a conversation and give time for communication;
  • treats with her signature dishes characterize the lady as a good hostess and give a man a reason to think about her candidacy in the second half;
  • questions about well-being show participation in the life of a boy by a girl
  • the girl asks about the man's mutual friends and colleagues, although she knows that they can tell him about it;
  • cute gifts with a hint: mugs with hearts for February 23, postcards for Valentine's Day - all this is a direct hint of sympathy;
  • jokes addressed to a man - an indispensable attribute of sympathy;
  • in the presence of the man of her dreams, the lady adjusts her hair, as she worries about how she looks.

In addition to such obvious signs of sympathy, there are also hidden ones. They are not always visible to the naked eye, so they must be carefully disassembled and evaluated, so as not to be confused with anything else.

Learning body language

In modern society, girls are not taken openly to express their sympathy. Firstly, a man, according to tradition, must seek the ladies ’hands and hearts, and secondly, he doesn’t want to entertain male ego and get into a mess. The rejected woman feels too depressed, so she tries to attract attention with cunning and various tricks.

To determine the sympathy of the girl, it is better to pay attention to the non-verbal signals that she gives. Symptoms of sympathy can be in both gestures and glance.

By gestures

If a girl tries to portray a cold estrangement with all her strength, the subconscious mind will still (sooner or later) give her away. According to some gestures and facial expressions, one can completely consider emotions that speak of sympathy. It is important to determine them in time.

  • Rotate the body of the body or just the legs in the direction of the preferred guy. When we like a person, we involuntarily open up to him, this is expressed precisely in the direction of our body in his direction. When reducing the distance between her and her prospective partner, a woman does not even notice how she turns her legs, even bent at the knees, guides her sock, can playfully shake her shoe.
  • Turning the body speaks completely about the special affection or openness of the girl. The mood for a novel here is quite obvious if there is also a smile, as well as light touches. But more about that later.
  • Particularly brave women can even touch a kid with a leg, for example, sitting with him at the same table. Such non-verbal communication takes some erotic overtones. There is no need to even guess whether you like a girl or not. The answer is unequivocal: yes, and very much so.
  • Permanent body contact. Location to this man is also manifested in the desire to touch him as often as possible. Nothing reflects romantic affection more than constant touching of a young man. Thus, a woman puts a hand on a man’s shoulder during a conversation, touches his chest, as if jokingly, pushing away, tries, passing by, lightly hug him, as if he prevents her from passing.

If this style of communication can be traced from a woman, then she is either windy yoke, or is really very interested in a particular man.How to accurately determine it? It is necessary to pay attention to whether the woman has the same behavior with all men or with only one definite. If the second option is appropriate, then sympathy is most likely present.

It is also easy to check feelings as follows: you need to start acting in this direction yourself. Add it or simply periodically touch the neutral parts of the body. There are two reaction options: violent and romantic.

In the first case, the girl, perhaps, will begin to be indignantly perversely, and in the second case - she will play along and provoke a repetition of such actions. When a given young man is unpleasant to a woman, she simply moves away from touch, moving over or transplanting.

  • Hair correction. It has long been a sign of the truth of the sympathy of the girl is twisting curl on the finger. But not only this gesture with hair, but also any game with them speak of female attachment. A lady can preen in front of a mirror when a desired man appears, or maybe beat a volume of strands with her hand. To clean the hair behind the ear and stroke the girl's head, too, may be due to sincere sympathy. To follow these eloquent actions, you need to take the girl by surprise. That is, suddenly go where it is. Otherwise, she can be confident in her appearance and not show such gestures.
  • The movement of the lips and legs. There are some signs that can clearly delineate the preference of the girl in relation to a particular person. These instinctive movements will help you quickly understand what's what.

Lips - this is one of the most sensitive areas in any lady. Therefore, when talking and gazing at an object of desire, she will nibble them or slightly lick them. She will keep her mouth slightly open for the main time And on the lips will remain a pleasant half-smile. It is unlikely that the girl will be able to restrain these gestures when a pleasant young man approaches a distance less than half a meter. Therefore, it is advisable to provoke her in such a way as to carefully assess her condition by such an invasion of the comfort zone.

The legs, in addition to the direction towards the man you like, can also tell a lot about the ladies' sympathy. With the close location of a handsome young man, the hips of the woman (often involuntarily) are compressed.

To notice such a gesture is quite difficult, especially if this part of the body is hidden by loose clothing. But the summer time with short dresses will help you to see it exactly.

  • Posture. When we want to seem more important, we often monitor body position. So the girls, wanting to attract a guy, will surely straighten their shoulders and chest, draw the belly in and begin to walk more gracefully. Everyone wants to look as good as possible in the eyes of the potential second half, so this gesture clearly shows the intentions of the beautiful person. If a girl before the arrival of a certain guy stood, as if nothing had happened, leaning on something in a relaxed posture, then when an attractive male appears on the horizon, she will definitely stretch her body, take off her hair and take on an important posture. By nature, these non-verbal signs indicate that she wants to be noticed.
  • Embarrassment. Even the strongest spirit girls can not completely hide their embarrassment from the sudden arrival or close location of the object of passion. So, a lady can begin to shift something in her hands: a piece of paper, a handkerchief. She may also begin to blush, talk nonsense, or stutter a little.

When a handsome young man is too close, the hormones play, so it’s almost impossible to stop the process of committing non-verbal actions.

Of course, for some of the girls, they are more pronounced, and for some - less, but they are always present. The main thing is to see them in time.

  • Imitation. Involuntary repetition of gestures, gaits, facial expressions of a young man directly indicates the strong sympathy of the fair sex. This marker allows you to know with certainty about feelings for sure. There is no need to wait for the moment and arrange for many hours of surveillance. Just sit back and see if she will repeat the same position. The girl will not repeat after the man in accuracy, she simply partially copies his behavior. The inclination of the head, body, light touch, but in the same direction, the same parts of the body. Interestingly, these gestures arise involuntarily. That is, the lady during their reproduction does not even control herself, which speaks in favor of this method of spying on the feelings of this lady.

By sight

The look is more eloquent than any words. It's hard enough to tell by the look that a certain guy really likes a girl. But in any case, try to follow the game is worth her eyes.

Flirting with eyes is a kind of flirting known since time immemorial. As the lady looks at the man she adores:

  • looks at him from under the lowered eyelashes and smiles sweetly;
  • looks away to the side, as if she has noticed him completely by chance;
  • looks again at the object and may smile or laugh embarrassed again.

It is better not to ignore this sign, supporting such an innocent game. And then come and meet a girl, so as not to lose precious time.

Being in a crowd, you can also check with a glance whether a particular young man likes a girl. Make it easier than ever:

  • you need to constantly be in sight (quite a long time);
  • then you need to disappear, but so that there is a visual access: if a lady is interested, having lost sight of a nice guy, she will start looking out for everyone to find him again.

Then you need to be visible again to see the reaction of the woman If she calms down and again begins to chat with someone with ease - she definitely has sympathy.

There is a more radical method of checking the look: you can come close to the girl and look into her eyes. An embarrassed lady in love will look away or look in the face with a smile with a smile. But (sooner or later) she still looks down in embarrassment. This sign says that a woman recognizes the dominance of a handsome man and agrees with his supremacy.

Women who have certain feelings for a particular man, when he approaches, there is one physiological sign - they have pupils that dilate.

Therefore, you must suddenly be close to the lady and carefully look into her eyes, preferably with good lighting. Then it will be very easy to notice such a reaction of the organism.

Social networking

If a girl communicates with a guy in social networks for a long time, but does not openly talk about her sympathy, then it’s hard not to worry. On the one hand, it seems that she just wants to be friends and does not want a romantic relationship at all, but on the other hand, if a lady spends a lot of time on correspondence, then she hardly wants to limit herself to exclusively friendly communication.

In general, one-on-one conversation is much more exciting than correspondence. Here you can carefully consider each phrase, do not pronounce it out loud and not look the guy in the eye at all.

Therefore, to some extent on the Internet you can quickly decide to show sympathy. In addition, due to the relaxed state in the process of correspondence, you can quickly express your feelings completely by accident.

There are so many distinctive features of a woman whom a guy really likes, you can find them in correspondence.

  • The girl is interested in the well-being and mood of the guy is not "for show". The lady is really worried, asking about all the details of the day. If a trouble has occurred, then she laments about this and tries her best to support. Women, in principle, characterized by care and attention.These qualities are inherent in them from nature and directed, as a rule, to a potential head of the family.
  • Comes up with affectionate nicknames or constantly uses diminutive names. Directly about her feelings, she is afraid or unwilling to take the initiative in their women's hands. But trying to provoke a guy to the first step a woman can in this way.
  • Wants to learn more about hobbies. Girls learn about this for several reasons: they want to find an approach, draw an analogy with their passions, want to try to get carried away with the same.
  • Says compliments. This is a very clear sign of the sympathy of a beautiful lady. Compliments are explicit and hidden. It depends on the degree of trust in communication and girl liberation. Most often talk about looks and pleasant qualities of character.
  • Worried if the guy lingers somewhere or does not respond for a long time. In the excitement of correspondence there are two signs of sympathy. First, the girl will really worry about the fact that she is dear. And secondly, she misses when a guy doesn’t go online for a long time, and wants to talk to him again quickly.
  • Sends your photos. A direct hint of the desire for a relationship is the addition of a photo to the context of the conversation.
  • Consults on many issues. Basically, if a guy likes, then he automatically becomes an authority for a girl. What dress is better, how to make up with a friend or mother, how to pass the session faster - this is only an incomplete list of possible questions from a lady in love. This is a clear sign of trust and romantic feelings towards this man.
  • He tries to respond in time or warns that he will be busy. She just does not want to lose confidence and appreciates any time spent together, even if only in correspondence. Typically, girls who are not particularly interested in this young man can be online for hours, but do not respond to a message or respond in monosyllables. It is necessary to notice such punctuality and understand that this is a clear sign of sympathy.
  • Trying to hint at a pastime in person. She can talk about the film, which is now going to the cinema, or enjoy the good weather and express a desire to walk. This is a direct hint of a date - you can not miss your chance.
  • Find any excuses to invite a young man to his home. For example, having learned about the guy's ability to repair the plumbing, tearfully asks him to help. So the girl is just trying to see him in person.
  • Takes the side of men in almost any matter. Whatever the young man tells and whatever he complains, the young lady in love will probably stand up for him and curse all those who have offended him. This position is very flattering to men.

Of course, all the ladies are very different, as are their signals of sympathy.

When solving a mystery about how to understand that a guy likes a girl, one should take into account both the described signs and the individual approach. Some ladies are more clamped, others are sociable and open.

Professional Tips

After searching for obvious and hidden signs of feminine sympathy, it is very easy to get lost in them. How to understand that you are not deceived by the clouded consciousness? For this there is a huge amount of advice from psychologists and simply experienced men who have always been popular with the opposite sex.

Surely determine the sympathy of the girl in only two ways:

  • when she herself said it;
  • inviting her on a date and voicing your preferences.

If the first option is delayed, then you should not hesitate and take the initiative. Without taking the first step yourself, you can lose the chance of happiness forever.

You need to listen to yourself and find out whether this girl is really the same. I waste my time on a lady who does not fit in character and other spiritual traits is at least irrational. Do not miss a convenient moment.If a woman clearly showed sympathy, you need to respond in time to develop relations further. Fate often gives us a chance, but we do not notice or lose sight of it.

In communication, do not need to wear a mock mask. To be yourself means to find yourself sooner or later a person who will accept you as you are, with all the advantages and disadvantages. And looking for problems in the form of improper passion is wrong. You should also relax and enjoy life. Then everything should turn out, since fate is favorable to those who love life.

A nervous and eternally saddened man can hardly please a girl, but a cheerful person draws, like a magnet, the same cheerful people, in particular, beautiful women.

A man should always try to look good and smell good. After all, appearance is a first impression, a basic requirement and an indicator of self-love. The rich inner world is beautiful, but in combination with a tidy man will be just great. You also need to get enough sleep. Healthy sleep affects not only the state of the organism, but also its appearance. In addition, the sleeping man is much more witty, jokes and communicates on any topic with ease. Therefore, girls will like it definitely stronger.

Treat with ease all that happens around you, including sympathy for the opposite sex. Be yourself, enjoy every day you live, and the second half is sure to be a pleasant addition to your happy life. One must learn to be self-sufficient and not to depend on any adversity.

Positive - this is what you need to strive for both in love and in other aspects of life.

    Thus, having familiarized yourself with the material of our article, you learned about the main signs of a girl’s sympathy towards you. Carefully study and analyze the behavior of your friends, acquaintances or co-workers - then you definitely will not miss the nascent love.

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