Talking to a girl you like is not so easy. After all, in order to freely and naturally communicate with her, you need not only to be able to speak beautiful phrases, but to overcome your constraint and fear. How to find the right words? How do you like a girl? What can I ask when meeting? Look for answers to these and other questions in our material.
General rules of communication
Finding the right words to talk to a girl you like is very easy. The main thing is to know some rules of communication and to study a little the questions of the psychology of communication with the opposite sex. If from the very first minutes of communication the guy manages to establish contact with the person you like, then already in the course of the conversation the girl will understand that it is easy and simple to communicate with you. Moreover, she will understand that you can be trusted.
The main rule is that you need to remember once and for all: girls are emotional and sensitive people. Therefore, the main thing in the conversation - to cause positive emotions from the interlocutor.
The conversation should be easy, talk only about what you are sure of yourself. You should not start to lead a conversation on topics that you think are interesting to girls.
For example, if you do not understand anything in fashion, then after a couple of minutes she will be bored with you. Also, do not say that she will not be interested. For example, this computer technology or sports cars. Your first conversation should be easy. Do not be afraid to flirt, do not be afraid to joke.
During the conversation, try to show yourself so that the girl just believed that you really like her. If you are cute to her, she will also behave easily and relaxed. Do not be afraid to smile and look straight into her eyes during a conversation. Girls love it very much.
During the conversation, she will probably tell you something about herself. It is very important to listen and hear what the girl says.
Be sure to memorize some of the details of her story, thanks to which you can then continue the conversation. In this case, she will understand what is really interesting to you and that you listened to her carefully.
Having remembered some interesting fact from her story, some information, do not ask her questions about this topic right away. Just remember the necessary information for yourself, and then quite unexpectedly ask her a question about it. She will surely be pleasantly surprised by your attentiveness and your interest in her person.
How to start and how to behave?
Many young people are hesitant or shy to approach the one they really like. And if this is your destiny? Therefore, drop your constraint and do not miss the opportunity. Many guys, wanting to meet a girl on the street, try to immediately impress her. They try to behave relaxed, immediately go to flirt, make compliments and say beautiful phrases. By the way, most of these phrases are taken either from films or from the Internet.
Such perseverance can scare some girls, so most of the attempts to meet on the street does not end there.
So do not be afraid to just come and be natural. It is better to just ask the girl what her name is, rather than trying to portray the real macho from advertising. You can simply say: "I am afraid that you will refuse me, but I really want to meet you." Similarly, you will be interested in it.
If you find her cute, she will give you her phone number, and then you can get to know each other better. If you see that the girl sympathizes with you, but hesitate to dictate your number, then just give her a notebook with a pen or your mobile phone. Then she will definitely write you her number.
During the meeting do not forget to introduce yourself. If mutual sympathy arises, then surely you will start a short conversation. During this conversation, try to pronounce her name more often, the girls like it very much and you will be able to endear her.
Remember that during a conversation there should be no vulgar jokes, any hints of intimacy, awkward jokes, etc.
In addition, try to avoid those that are associated with your personal problems or with the problems of your relatives. The first conversation should be easy, otherwise you will simply disappoint the new acquaintance.
To find the right words during the first conversation, meeting and interest the girl you like, you need to behave naturally and be able to communicate easily. Keep some interesting stories in stock. You can tell about your recent journey, about your deplorable culinary experience, etc. The story should be lively, interesting, only then it will cause positive emotions in the interviewee.
In the event that the girl was too shy, then, most likely, during the conversation there will be awkward pauses. You must fill them in, otherwise she will think that you are bored in her company.
Trying to talk to the interlocutor, never say the following phrases: “You keep silent all the time, probably you are not interested in me,” “You are silent, but I don’t know what else to say,” and so on.
Ask her to start with questions that you can easily answer only "yes" or "no." Be sure to look into her eyes, do not forget about the compliments and after some time, realizing that you can be trusted, the silence will surely be revealed.
During the conversation, remember that the dialogue will succeed only if both are talking. If the guy is fascinated by a story about himself, and only he will talk all the time, the interlocutor will very quickly become boring and uninteresting. It happens that the girls also want to take part in the conversation, but the guy does not make any pauses at all and does not allow her to say anything either. The guy should be not just a good storyteller, but also an interesting conversationalist and attentive listener.
Correct words
To impress a girl, you need to know by heart aphorisms and sayings of great people. Only it should not be banal phrases that are in all social networks.
In addition, immediately abandon the idea of quoting beautiful poems. With excitement, you can forget them, and in the end everything will not look as optimistic as you would like.
Think in advance about what you will communicate during the meeting and choose the right words for specific topics. For example, if you want to tell her about your passion for music, you can prepare in advance the saying of one of the great musicians, composers. At the same time it is very important that you pronounce this phrase easily, as if this is your personal opinion.
In addition, give up banal compliments such as “You are the most beautiful girl I have met”, etc. Try to give compliments naturally and easily. “It’s very easy and interesting for me to be with you” - such a phrase can hook on any girl. No matter what you say, no matter what is said, the main thing is not to pretend to be better than it actually is and not to be afraid to show sincerity.
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