Rules of conduct in public places

Every day we encounter different people. In transport, at work, in the store, on the way home we meet a lot of people hurrying about their business. Compliance with the rules of behavior allows us to avoid bad situations, which we sometimes witness. There are often cases of unpleasant conversations in transport or quarrels in the store. A well-educated person knows how to behave properly and is sure to avoid such situations.

From early childhood, kids are told how to behave correctly. From the first days, adults should help the child to become a cultured person, to be able to get along with other children in the children's step and at school. Growing up, everyone should remember these rules and follow them. Such standards exist to help anyone avoid awkward caseswhich not only spoil the mood, but also leave an unpleasant impression for a long time. How an individual gets out of an unpleasant situation depends on how familiar he is with such a thing as etiquette.

The correctness of our actions largely depends on how people around us see us. Society begins to evaluate a person and all his actions.

The purpose of the rules of behavior - to create a comfortable environment for each member of society, not allowing rudeness, rudeness, disrespect for individuals. From each individual, from his ability to behave correctly and to comply with generally accepted standards, it depends on what kind of society we create.

Although we are taught from early childhood the rules of good taste and the ability to behave culturally in a public place, judging by the frequent conflicts, some etiquette norms are not taken into account by individuals. Ethics is a kind of standard of behavior, a system of rules adopted in society.

A child from birth faces a small number of people - these are parents and relatives, doctors, neighbors. When he enters kindergarten, he feels insecure if parents have failed to instill the rules of good behavior in time, which should be observed in such institutions.

Every person in a new place feels insecure, and this situation may cause stress to a child. Gradually accustom the child to a large number of people, talk about the rules of behavior. Explain what acts for children are unacceptable.

We are often on the street or in the store watching how ugly the child begins to behave, arranging tantrums. Small children beg for toys and sweets from their parents. As for teenagers, they can loudly make noise, swear, smoke, behave inappropriately. Such behavior should be unacceptable for minors.

Many of them know that there are norms that must be adhered to, but not all follow them. Teens should understand that parents can be punished for not following them. From the age of 14, they will be able to answer for violation of public peace.

There are certain rules that should be followed:

• It is not recommended to shout loudly in a public place.
• You can not throw garbage is not in the bins, spit, break trees and bushes.
• It is necessary to follow the rules of the road, cross the road in the required position.
• You can not do bad deeds, you should warn your peers from them.
• Children should not mock and tease other people, as well as insult, spoil the property or clothing of their peers.
• You can not hurt the little ones.
• It is necessary to respect the elderly.

These are just basic requirements for students. Pupils know that they are forbidden:

• Drinking alcohol.
• Gambling cards.
• Swear obscene words.
• Get into the basements, on the roofs.
• To commit hooliganism, for example, throw stones.

Adults are obliged to teach the child how to act correctly in places.where there are many people so as not to disturb the peace. It is necessary to make it clear to the child that educated people will not scream and make noise, throw papers from candies on the floor, whistle and spit.

When a baby gets into a new place, he must understand how to behave and what cannot be done. For example, tell a child that in a zoo you cannot tease animals, throw stones, climb on bars, shout loudly and spit. So, a young visitor will not only frighten animals, but will also interfere with those who came to the zoo and endanger themselves.

When visiting a circus or movie, a child must follow proper manners. Explain why they do not eat during the performance, while popcorn with drinks is brought to the circus. When visiting a museum, children should listen carefully to what the guide tells, and also not to touch the exhibits and shop windows.

Special attention should be paid to the children on their behavior in transport. Explain to the child that:

• First come the women and the elderly, then the children go.
• Passing through the cabin, elbows should be pressed, you can not push passengers.
• It is necessary to pay the fare on time.
• Loud music interferes, so it makes it quieter or turned off.
• You can not write on the seats, spoil the property, throw garbage.
• You can not make noise, scream, and also distract the driver during traffic
• If the child has not eaten the purchased hot dog or pie, it should be put in the bag and eaten after disembarking from the transport, otherwise passengers may be dirty. Use napkins during meals, eat carefully, do not chomp.
• The child should always have a handkerchief with him and use it as needed. Sneezing or coughing, you should always close your mouth, use napkins or a handkerchief.
• Also explain to the child that it is necessary to monitor their appearance and when going out to the street be clean and neatly dressed and combed.

From early childhood, children begin to teach politeness. For this kind of training, your daily example is better suited. Do not forget to say polite words in your family at home. When parents or relatives constantly use the words “thank you”, “please”, “bon appetit”, “good morning”, “good night” and so on, the child starts to pronounce them and learns first. the rules of politeness.

Do not forget to teach your baby important rules of behavior:

• Opening the door, you should knock.
• Do not interrupt the conversation of seniors.
• Do not ignore, go away or turn away.

The child needs to instill cultural behavior at the table. Children copy their parents. If adults in the family do not always behave correctly, then the young household members begin to repeat their actions.Teach your child how to behave at the table and tell me what you can not do during a meal.

A child should be firmly aware that:

• Wash hands with soap and water before eating.
• You need to be able to wipe with paper napkins.
• Need to take enough food.
• Be able to properly use the devices.
• After the meal always give thanks.

However, the child should be explained what should not be done during a meal:

• Stuffing a mouthful of food while talking.
• Spit out the food.
• Dabble, spin, turn away, be capricious.

I especially want to draw the attention of parents to the fact that the child should not be taught to chomp at the tablethat adults sometimes do. Start raising a child with yourself. The kid watches how his parents behave themselves in society. If he sees that they are loudly cursing, spitting past an urn, throwing papers and rude in the store, then this is hardly a good example to follow.

Growing up, your child gets into the company of peers who will have a certain influence on him. Show him that bad behavior looks bad from the outside, and also explain why other people condemn bad actions and how this may affect their future.

Adults should also follow the rules of behavior, not only on the street, but also in the family. Much depends on how well adults can behave in public places. Using the rules of cultural communication, you can make new contacts in the workplace and in everyday life.

Leaving the house, we are faced with a large number of people. On the street, in transport, shops, adults should behave so as not to cause inconvenience to others and adhere to certain requirements:

• Take care in advance of clean and comfortable clothing and shoes for going for a walk. Hair should be clean, neatly arranged.

• Passing through the street, carefully look around or pass the traffic light signal. Never cross in front of cars or in unspecified places. Also, you can not walk on the lawn.
• When moving, do not swing your arms, do not keep your hands in your pockets, do not slouch, look forward, but do not forget to look at your feet. If you want to eat, you can buy a loaf or pie, step aside and eat food. Do not chew on the go - it's ugly. In addition, you can stain the clothes yourself and people walking nearby.
• Do not throw garbage, napkins and cigarette ends on the road. If there are no bins nearby, temporarily put the garbage in your pocket. For smokers, there are places where they can smoke. Smoking is prohibited in public places.

If there are several people walking along the sidewalk, there are certain rules:

1. You should not crowd the street, interfering with passersby. Allowed 3 people walking nearby.
2. If there is a man with a woman, the lady should go to the right. The exception is the military - they should be given the honor.
3. If there are two men with a woman, the lady goes in the middle.
4. If there are two ladies and a man, an older woman goes next to him, then younger in age.
5. If the ladies are the same age, the gentleman goes between them.

A trip in public transport requires the implementation of certain rules:

• When entering public transport, remove bulky bags and backpacks so as not to hit other passengers.
• You should not occupy more than one place in transport, exposing your legs widely.
• If you are asked a question, you should listen carefully and answer it.
• Do not forget the magic words: “thank you”, “please” - be benevolent. If you accidentally hit the passenger, you should immediately apologize. Often in transport you can observe situations when someone was stepped on or pushed. It is very unpleasant when a scandal begins, and in fact it was enough just to apologize politely.
• If you eat with small children, make sure that they do not make noise, do not interfere with the neighbors, do not shout. Give them a quiet remark, and at home discuss this matter with them.

• Be sure to pay for travel, show travel or other documents without indignation, because the controller simply does its job.
• Coming out of transport, the first man comes out, gives the lady’s hand. Young people offer assistance to older strangers, people with disabilities.
• Going down the stairs, the first should go a man, and going up - a woman.
• If you are in an unfamiliar place or on the stairs there is no light, the man must go first.
• If you go up in an elevator without a man, press the button yourself, if with a man it is his duty.

Entering the store, in front of the door, you should skip leaving people, then enter yourself. Be correct with sellers, prepare money in time, do not distract the cashier.

If you are going to the cinema or theater, the rules of etiquette will help here:

• Come on time to start a session or performance.
• Going to your place, turn to face the audience.
• Do not turn, do not swing in different directions.
• Do not talk, do not whisper.
• Turn off mobile phones

On how to behave on the street or in transport, many people know. But people do not always know how to act when they come to a museum, theater, cinema. For this there are general rules of behavior:

1. During the performance, you cannot talk on the phone or with your neighbors, banging your feet, tapping your fingers, whispering or shouting out loud phrases or words.
2. Do not lean on the back of the front seat with your hands or feet. Do not come to the event with fever, runny nose. You will not only interfere with those present, but may also infect them.
3. In the theater, do not view the audience through binoculars, do not inspect them even during the intermission. If a man came to the theater with a lady, she should not be left alone. Take care of her, bring her drinks and sweets from the buffet (according to her wish).
4. If you don’t like the show, quietly (without discussion) stay until it’s completed. Do not leave the hall until the end of the performance, but rather wait for intermission. When it is over, wait until the curtain falls, then slowly leave.

The following video will tell you more about how to behave in a theater, cinema or other public place.